You are in a place you never thought you would be. Saying it is hard and painful is an understatement. You will get to the other side with freedom and joy. It is brave to start again. It sucks that you have to.

You are not broken, but you feel shattered.
Things will get better
You will get though this.

You do not have to navigate this alone.


Just like how birth doula supports a new parent through all the parts of having a baby; the beginnings, the messes, the late nights and the fatigue-driven overthinking spirals, as your divorce doula, I’ll be your shoulder through it all. I am an additional resource to work through the complicated divorce process as extra support, advice, a listening ear and help while navigating frustrating and unfair systems.

 

It is brave to change your mind, pivot, and start again.

  • You want to talk about lighting their house on fire (probably not the best to tell your therapist this, but definitely google Kelly Clarkson talking about it)

  • You don’t want to waste your lawyers $500/hr billable rate to share feelings.

  • You want to save your therapy hour to talk about the trauma you are now dealing with from marrying this a**hole.

  • Friends and family are supportive, they don’t get it and you are need someone that does.

 

How it works?

  • Book one thirty minute coaching call for $75 USD. If you decide you want more, you can book them as needed.

  • Simple, uncomplicated, here when you need me.

  • Contact me and let me know you are interested. I send you a short form to fill out with a booking link to set up a session.

  • Email is included between calls because I know you get text messages from people at weird hours that you want to screenshot and scream about. I get it.

I’ve heard it all (and thought most of it!) I know how painful it can be to share what happening, how it sounds outrageous and how hurt you are. The tornado of feelings, the outrage with pain, overwhelm with rage and so many tears.

It sucks, I get it and I can help you ride the rollercoaster because I’ve been on it and know how fast the turns go and it feels like it will never end. It does and having help gets you there.

 

Things we might talk about/things you might be saying/thinking that are completely normal and understandable!

  • Who the F did I marry

  • My friends are tired of hearing about this

  • No one understands. They are there but no one understands. 

  • I’m so alone. How do I do this?

  • How do I respond to this text message with my ex

  • Wtf are they talking about

  • Taking care of yourself how to feel yourself/bare minimum so you can get through it

  • The cycles of anger, sadness, and fear

  • Loss of friendships and other relationships (some people that you thought would show up for you are gone, some that you did not expect to are there)

  • Walking the fine of distraction and full avoidance


I know it might not feel like you deserve help or you can handle it. You CAN, but also knowing exactly what you are dealing with and how to manage it is invaluable. You can read all the books and power through it with grit. Sometimes you still need someone to remind you that no, you are not losing it and yes, you will get through it and at what points it will feel the worst and how to survive. I can help you do the hard things.


TLDR, because we know you’re trying to process all of this and don’t have the attention span to read every word of this page

I can help you.

Divorce sucks.

I’ve been there. Let’s talk.

Where we start:
If you are interested, your next step is reach out and book a session.
Have a question? You can email me directly here: Kim@kimberlyweiss.com